Frequently Asked Questions

Do you have reviews?
Having become a top-rated provider, I decided to delist from review sites, as I do not enjoy the culture there. I ask that you do not write reviews about our time together for the sake is discretion and privacy. If you choose to review me without permission, you will be blacklisted and you will not be welcome back. As an alternative, I have testimonials here on my website for you to read. If you would like to contribute some of your own words, please let me know!

Can I shout you out online and tell people I met you?
I err on the side of privacy and discretion. I would never tell people that you were meeting me or that you were my client, and I ask the same courtesy in return.

I’ve never done this before, how can I learn what’s expected of me and how to do this?
Read this entire website, especially the FAQ, Etiquette, and Booking pages. There’s lots of great resources out there about how to properly contact and conduct yourself with a provider like myself.
Do your research online, and read a provider’s ad and website thoroughly as it will tell you most of what you need to know. 
Here’s a useful blog post about how to contact a companion and what you should know in advance.

Here’s a link to a short, informative video about this topic as well.

How do I know you’re real?
Research me online. I have a long standing, active social media presence that you can view here, I’m on multiple ad sites, I have professional images, and you’re on my website.

Where are you based?
New York City, USA

Do you offer social rates?
No, I do not.

Do you see non-white clients?
I welcome clients of all races and ethnicities. All that matters to me, is that you are polite, punctual, hygienic, and that you respect my rules and boundaries. 

I need a reference from you, how can I be in touch about that?
If you are a provider who needs to check a reference with me or a gentleman who has seen me within the last 6 months and would like me to be a reference for you, you can write to me at

Do you offer duos?
Yes I do! I have a few amazing girlfriends and guy friends who I would be happy to join us, if you like. 

How can I stay up to date with where you are?
You can easily stay up to date my subscribing to my Newsletter at the bottom of this page to see when I’m coming to your city!

Do you accept credit cards?
I do not accept credit cards. Cash is always preferred. If you would like to pay for your session a few days in advance with an electronic transfer, or you need to pay a deposit please ask about this. Otherwise, I accept cash only.

Do you do (…)?
I do not provide a menu of services or discuss anything explicit in my communication with you. I’m looking for an organic connection with you, and will not respond to any emails with acronyms in them.

Can I make a same-day appointment?
It is rare that I am available the same day to meet you as I need time to screen you and make sure space is available for hosting you, if you require it. You will have more luck if you can host me instead. I am willing to do this for pre-screened clients or clients I’ve seen before, so if your schedule is a bit unpredictable, get yourself pre-screened by me to be prepared. Bear in mind that same-day appointments may include a surcharge on top of my normal fee and that my cancelation policy still applies if you decide to cancel a same-day appointment. It is always advised to plan in advance.

When can I set a date with you?
Advanced booking is recommended. Let me know what day and time you would like and be prepared to give your screening information. To reserve your time a deposit is required while touring, or booking an extended date.

Do you offer half an hour dates?
No, I do not. 

I need to cancel and reschedule, what should I do?
I understand that things happen and I’m happy to reschedule. I have a cancelation policy that applies when I have less than 24 hours notice of your cancelation or less than 48 hours while touring or traveling and I will require 50% of my fee in such cases. Less than 6 hours notice may require the full fee amount. Cancellations within a few hours of our scheduled time will require the full fee. Deposits are not refundable. 

Can you send me a candid picture, or non-face selfie?
No, I cannot, but I have a twitter account full of candid shots you can see!

May I see a picture of your face?
While my face is one of my favorite features, I cannot share it publicly. Discretion is very important to me and in the interest of protecting myself and my clients, I do not show pictures of my face. 

Who is your ideal client?
Someone who is intelligent, communicative, sensitive and knows what he wants. He arrives on time and brings a positive attitude. I’m grateful to have met lovely people who meet this description.

What are your hobbies?
Going to the theatre, kickboxing, cooking, being outdoors, reading, and traveling abroad. Conversing with intelligent, interesting people. I like stories.

What do you like to wear?
Lace, lipstick, and high heels.

What do you like to drink?
Lately I’ve been sampling different kinds  of whiskey, bourbon, or scotch.  I also enjoy dry, red wines and sparkling whites in particular. Do you have a favorite? I’d love to try it!

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